SOL General Play Party Rules
Respect yourself, respect others, and respect the play space.
A SOL MUNCH does not Count as Vetting. Vetted members only at Official SOL Play Parties
Vetting is only received threw public meet ups. Play space is generally a Private member-only establishment
Event Staff have the right to stop any scene or go as far ass Ban a member at their discretion
Failure to obey the play space rules will result in being asked to vacate the party immediately.
All activities/scenes are to be negotiated and consensual between all parties involved.
Do not interfere with the activities/scenes of others.
Use Safe words. Extreme restriction scenes require a safety monitor.
breath play/suspension/ropes/ect are examples of extreme restriction scenes.
The default safe word is “Red” to stop a scene. “Yellow” means a participant needs to rest or change position/activity/toy. “Green” is good to go. Any activity where is it impractical to use a verbal safe word should have a safe-signal (“dropping something” or “wave”).
Exchange of money or services, or promise thereof, for activities of any kind is STRICTLY PROHIBITED
Electronic devices must remain in silent mode.
Photos are only allowed with the consent of the person(s) in photo.
Food and open Drinks are not recommended the Play Space.
Try to use a spill-proof container for drinks. Generally no food is allowed in the play space. Unless a scene involves food
Public equipment must be cleaned after use with cleaners after each use.
Use your best judgment
All scenes require a necessary amount of space. Activities involving paint, dyes, wax, etc. should be contained by the use of drop cloths. If a play party has alcohol, pace yourself and don't get plastered. Keep the space clean! Pick up after yourself. Pick up trash and leave the space as you found it. Only kink related "fighting" allowed